There are 114,550 U.S. children are in foster care, waiting to be adopted. They have been removed from their homes as victims of child abuse, neglect or abandonment and are left without a family.  Last year, 29,471 children turned 18 and left the Foster Care System without an adoptive family.  November is National Adoption Month and you can make a difference.

The “30 Days of Amazing Children: Explore Adoption!” initiative presenting children in foster care who dream of being adopted by forever families was unveiled yesterday, Noevember 1, by Florida Department of Children and Families Secretary George Sheldon and Florida’s Chief Child Advocate Jim Kallinger.

A different “Amazing Child” available for adoption in Florida is being featured every day during National Adoption Month in November on www.adoptflorida.org. Many of the featured teens, sibling groups and children with medical needs are depicted on videos as they talk about themselves and their hopes to become part of a loving family. About 850 children are available for adoption on any given day in Florida, and more than half of them are teenagers.

“Floridians are encouraged to visit www.adoptflorida.org during November and become acquainted with children available for adoption and their dreams of belonging to a family,” Secretary Sheldon said. “These are Florida’s children. Their futures depend on actions that all of us can take to raise adoption awareness and recruit loving adoptive families.”

“When children in foster care are adopted by a permanent family, they feel loved, secure and positive about their future,” Chief Child Advocate Kallinger said. “The many adoptive parents I have met are equally overjoyed to add these wonderful children to their families. We just need to keep spreading the adoption message.”

Children in foster care who do not achieve permanency with a family before transitioning out of care at age 18 are at higher risk of being arrested, becoming teenage moms, dropping out of school and becoming homeless. Over the past three and a half years, Florida has safely reduced the number of children in foster care by nearly 11,000, or 36 percent, through adoptions, permanent guardianships and reunification with parents.

Nearly 50 adoption celebrations and finalization ceremonies are being held throughout Florida this November. Go to http://www.adoptflorida.org/adoptionmonth4.shtml to find out about events in the Miami area.

While private forms of adoption can cost upwards of $30,000, adopting one of Florida’s children in foster care costs little or nothing. The benefits include a monthly adoption subsidy for the family, health benefits for the child, and free college tuition at a Florida public university, community college or vocational school. The federal adoption tax credit recently was raised to $13,170 per child and is refundable, meaning eligible taxpayers can receive it regardless of whether or not they owe taxes for that year.

For more information, please visit www.adoptflorida.org and be sure to follow Voices For Children Foundation on Facebook.

The Be A Voice, Take A Stand Gala is scheduled for Saturday, February 19, 2011.  As we eagerly count down the days to this fantastic event at Mandarin Oriental, Miami, be sure to check out the October 2010 issue of Ocean Drive Magazine featuring an interview with Jorge Gonzalez — Mandarin Oriental, Miami’s general manager.

Click here to read the full article in Ocean Drive, on newstands now.

There is nothing quite like a father’s advice.  Somehow he always has the thoughts and words to know just what to say at the right time.  While biologically capable of fathering children, not all fathers are able to be dads to their children, or speak for them. Some are mentally and emotionally unfit to be parents, while others struggle constantly with substance abuse. 

As we celebrate fathers and their advice in our lives, let us today remember those that are not as fortunate to have a father figure in their life - due to abuse, abandonment and neglect. 

In honor of Father’s Day, the Voices family has compiled some words of wisdom they have received from their fathers and father-figures:

A Father’s Advice

“Stay true to your word.”

“If you’re going to hoot with the owls at night, you need to soar with the eagles in the morning.”

“Stand up straight, shake hands firmly, and always look people in the eye.”

“An education is one thing people cannot take away from you.”

“Don’t swing if it’s not in the strike zone.  If it is, swing harder.”

“Don’t be afraid to make mistakes.”

“Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all.”

“Say what you mean and mean what you say.”

What advice has your father given you over the years?

Whole Foods Market in conjunction with Voices For Children Foundation is promoting Change for Change.  This new program, which will run through July 4th, allows customers to donate their $0.10 reusable bag refund to Voices For Children.  Simply shop at Whole Foods between now and July 4th, bring in your reusable bag for your groceries, and at check-out donate your refund to Change for Change and Voices For Children Foundation.

Where:  Whole Foods Market
6701 Red Road (Red Road and US 1)
Coral Gables, FL 33143

Nelson F. Hincapie, President and CEO of Voices For Children Foundation, was featured today in an opinion piece written to The Miami Herald.

Don’t hurt foster kids
BY NELSON F. HINCAPIE
voices4.org

Nelson F. Hincapie, Voices For Children President and CEO

Imagine you live in a home where you are abused or neglected. Then you are moved into foster care until you turn 18 years old and can “take care of yourself.” It is a severe way to grow up quickly, so it is no surprise that many of our foster-care children in Miami-Dade need help to make the transition into adulthood, in order to become successful members of society.

Until now, these kids have been able to get some help through the state’s Road to Independence program, which offers help with housing and living expenses, health and mental health assistance, and school.

That assistance is in danger. During this year’s legislative session, Florida House Bill 5305, cutting the financial help these young adults in Miami-Dade receive nearly in half, came close to passing. Thankfully, it didn’t, but budget pressure in our state is certainly not over.

If this kind of cost-cutting is implemented in the next session, these young men and women, who have been disadvantaged their entire lives, would be given even less of a chance to succeed. Many would be forced to quit school in order to make enough money to survive, and by doing so make themselves ineligible to receive any aid at all. Dropping from the program would further isolate them and strip away the resources needed for them to make it.

Erasing their best chance to finish school is clearly not the right way to help these children become productive members of our community. Frankly, it’s setting up our foster-care children to fail. It’s a tragedy that should not be allowed to happen.

The ill-conceived House Bill 5305 calculated that the “state average” stipend for a foster-care child in the Road to Independence program is $737 a month, and proposed capping the stipend at $675. The problem with that is quite obvious — taking a statewide average produces a result on which no one in our community could live. Living on $737 a month in Tallahassee is equivalent to about $1,100 in Miami.

The truth is that the current average Road to Independence stipend for a child in Miami-Dade is $1,138. Can an 18-year-old transitioning from foster care in Miami-Dade go from $1,138 to $675 without quitting school and going to work? Not likely. Miami-Dade’s cost of living has increased 18 percent in the past five years, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, a faster rise than other parts of Florida.

Protecting the Road to Independence program is more significant for Miami-Dade than anywhere else in Florida. Not only is the cost of living here higher, but we have by far the most children in the program. More than 24 percent of all Road to Independence recipients in the state live here. The next closest county is Broward with 12 percent.

Think of the unreasonable burden cutting this program would put on our transitioning foster children, who are not only working to become successful young adults, but are having to do so on a meager stipend that is expected to pay for schooling, housing and other living expenses.

These are difficult economic times, and our state legislators looked for ways to tighten the budget, as they should have. But this is a matter of fairness, not just cost. It’s also a trap of being penny-wise but pound-foolish; we can help these children now and benefit Miami-Dade for years to come, or we can neglect them now, as they have been neglected their entire lives, and pay for it later with an adult population ill-equipped to succeed without government help.

The foster care children in our community need us now to be their voices. Contact your state representative and voice your support for the Road to Independence program. The Florida legislature needs to create a better process for evaluating its funding. A “state average” calculation for stipend provisions results in unequal and unjust distribution of funds across the state. Without vocal community support, the Road to Independence will stop short for Miami-Dade.

Nelson F. Hincapie is President and CEO of Voices For Children, which raises funds to support the 11th Judicial Circuit Guardian Ad Litem Program.

There comes a time in every man and woman’s life when a crucial decision must be made – to bowl, or not to bowl?  On May 6, 2010, over 200 people answered that question by donning their best game faces and stylish bowling shoes to participate in Voices For Children’s Strike Out Child Abuse event.  Friends gathered to enjoy cocktails and appetizers of sushi, quesadillas and pizza and to support the end of child abuse and child neglect in Miami-Dade County.

Twenty-nine teams competed for trophies which were given to the first and last place teams.  Team Appelrouth, which was led by board member Gail Appelrouth, received a trophy for receiving a score of 366.  Team Tennis Terrors, led by team captain Robin Connell, received a score of 939 and took home the trophy for first place. 

The real winners of the night, however, were the children.  The event not only gave awareness to the important issue of child abuse within our community, but also raised over $12,000. 

A special thanks to all of those who participated in the evening. In particular, Voices For Children would like to thank board member Andrea Steinacker, for her hard work in conceptualizing the evening, generating awareness of the night and Being A Voice.

Enjoy some photos of the evening, and stay tuned for more…

Update: For more photos of the bowling event, please visit our Facebook page, or visit our Shutterfly page!

May is National Foster Care Month, a time designed to raise awareness about what foster parents do and why they’re needed. According to the Florida Department of Children and Families, there are more than 19,000 children in foster care across the state.  In Miami-Dade County alone there are 2,600 children foster care system that are in need of loving and safe homes.  This May, Voices For Children encourages everyone to think about what we can do to Be a Voice for these children, and ensure that every abused and neglected child in Miami-Dade County has a court-appointed Guardian ad Litem. 

There are many reasons children are victims of abuse and neglect.  According to a recent report  cases of shaken baby syndrome have jumped sharply during the recession, further fueling worries about the link between economic stress and the deadliest form of child abuse.  We all know that times are tough, and that financially speaking as individuals, we might be struggling to make ends meet.  However, the economy should not be an excuse to allow our children to suffer.

Please make a choice this May to stand up for children that are victims of child abuse.  Be A Voice for the children of Miami-Dade County by learning more , volunteering to become a Guardian ad Litem, or donating  to Voices For Children Foundation.

Over 100 participants donned their polo shirts, shorts and tennis skirts for The Ball’s in Your Court, Tennis Tournament, a two-day tournament held on October 3 and October 4, 2009 at Crandon Park on Key Biscayne.

The tournament, which started in 2003, consists of men’s doubles, women’s doubles and mixed doubles.  Trophies were awarded to the winning teams in each category.

Photo by Celso Diniz, http://www.celsodiniz.com/

Participants not only had a blast competing, but the tournament also raised over $5,000.00 in support of the end of child abuse, abandonment and neglect in Miami-Dade County.  The next The Ball’s in Your Court, Tennis Tournament will be held on Saturday and Sunday, October 16 & 17, 2010 at Crandon Park. 

More details to follow soon.  If you are interested in participating in this event please call Iris Ardon, Development Manager at 305-325-5678, or email Iardon@voices4.org.